Comments on: Lonely Russian Girls Dating Site

By: Wendy O

Wendy O — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:34:59 +0000

Stop worrying about meeting girls and start worrying about getting your life in order.
You may find a girl who is willing to help boost your confidence – one who wants to be more the boss in the relationship – but trust me – that isn’t what you want.
Everyone has something about them worth while – you dont have to be a major rock star, or the leading man on broadway to have something worth while sharing – get a grip – find out who you are – take some classes and get involved – it doesn’t take a lot of money but once you feel more comfortable about your own life – others will notice. You have a choice – either live in your little closet and let life go on with you on the sidelines wishing this and that – or get out there and take control of your life.
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By: sonkysst

sonkysst — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:32:59 +0000

Sounds to me like you suffer from depression. The best definition I have ever heard for depression is simpley anger turned inward. Your low self esteem is rooted from what? Did your parents critisize you all the time? Did some one important in your life reject you? These are things you must figure out then work out for yourself or with a counselor. I will give you some words of wisdom though. I’m 34 and have survived almost every tradgidy known to mankind. From parent abandonment to death to rape and abuse, I was nearly beaten to death once too. After all of that and the stupid mistakes I made in my youth I wouldn’t change a thing. Why? Because everything I have done, endured, survived, those things made me who I am today. I can honestly say I like me. Not many people can say those words and mean it. The best way to overcome your low self esteem is to remember a few things…
1. Screw em if they don’t like you. You lived your whole life without them. You can live the rest of it that way too.
2. If you make an ass of yourself. Laugh about it even though you want to cry and hide. Laugh out loud so those laughing at you are now laughing with you. Everyone has made a complete idiot of themselves at some point or have had lifes most embaressing moments. So have you. If nothing else it makes for an intersting topic to talk with some one about.
3.Go places where no one knows you. Drive 30 miles and cut loose. That way you’re overcomming your fear and if you do humiliate yourself you wont have to see them again. The following weekend drive 30 miles in another direction.
4. Women like men who arent overly aggressive with the BS lines we hear all the time. Just be yourself who cares if Joe Schmo has a different girl every week. Why? Because Joe there is either with a different ho or a naive girl who will look for some one like you next time.
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By: jeishun

jeishun — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:30:59 +0000

And you’re just gonna believe the television..? They could be lying, they’ve done it before.

Wel I’m sure they’ll be breaking up. I don’t think being single is the worse thing ever. Atleast better than having a something annoying and clingy, and just wont leave you alone. It might sound nice, but sometimes I feel I rather be hated than loved by people I’m disgusted by.
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By: justanotherengine

justanotherengine — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:28:59 +0000

Well this should make you feel better ! Thats a SCAM ya "Beanhead", I have friends in the NYPD and I hear this story "ALL DAY CAP" ! They come over here, hook up with you, marry you, punch out a kid, divorce you after a year, now they have citizenship, an "Anchor" and "YOU" paying 50% of everything, and still no "PU$$Y". It's run by the Russian Mob, they make our "MOB" look like a bunch of Girl Scouts, and they all have PH'D's, Don't be wiener, stay away from THAT ! Ya only 29, GET THE FU*& OUT THERE !
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By: Cèdes

Cèdes — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:26:59 +0000

It's understandable, but you can't feel pitiful for yourself because no girl will put up with someone like that. The image that you have of yourself reflects on others. Work on yourself, then you will find someone right for you. Or you could just simply go on a mail order bride website and buy yourself a wife.
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By: Jacee B

Jacee B — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:24:59 +0000

I believe things happen for a reason and you watching that show is kind of showing you that you can be as happy as that guy on the talk show.
The thing is, it’s no good sitting their and feeling miserable, upset and angry, YOU can change it for the better, but the thing is, it’s your life, so its only you that can take the actions to do so.
Firstly know that you can overcome you problems, seriously it’s all mental and it’s you who is in control of yourself.
Just change your whole thinking attitude and dont talk yourself out of it, just get up and make the changes for the better for yourself. You can do it..Good Luck .
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By: sticky_feijoa

sticky_feijoa — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:22:59 +0000

Welcome to my world. Only difference is that I know that the stuff on tv ain't all it's cracked up to be. You don't get to see these people behind closed doors arguing, taking forever to put on makeup and look great, clipping toenails and the like. You'll find someone. Or they might find you. Have some faith in yourself, everybody has good qualities which the right person will find unbelievably desirable. Chin up and keep a smile on your face =)
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By: kobrajesus

kobrajesus — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:20:59 +0000

Why don't you get on the internet and get your own russian babe?
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By: sideshow bob

sideshow bob — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:18:20 +0000

i feel so jealous and down?
im watching tv just now and im watching a chatshow. and theres this guy who met his internet bride over the internet, his russian bride. he met her on a date site. and he was describing how everything went so perfect, they met after a short while and fell in love, and shes beautifull, the chat shows called , trisha. and heres me battling psychiatric probs, whos got extremely low confidence who struggles to meet any girls, i cant even hold conversation sometimes, i feel so bad about myself. i feel as though i havent got anything going for me, im 29 and missed out so much, and i feel a desperation to catch up, im so lonely every night….then i watch the tv this morning and i see this guy come on the chatshow with a beeming smile and grin telling the audience about it. and the audience to have all got these huge grins as well, an i feel rejected, lonely, and angry, very angry.
every time i try to reach out to girls on the internet it never works out because i freeze up, dont no what to chat about, or they pick up on my low self esteem, or i feel as though i got nothing going for me